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 A Girl's Perspective
By Amelia Pace-Borah
Fall 2000

I'm 15 and live in Round Rock. This summer I read Reviving Ophelia, by Mary Pipher. I sat up in bed for hours, reading and weeping with grief for my friends and myself. I hardly was able to put it down.

I definitely felt a drastic change within myself after I hit adolescence, but I had never before been able to verbalize what I was experiencing or even understand it. I remember my younger years of childhood fondly. I was confident and full of energy, open to new ideas, up for anything, and interested in everything. Adults who had only just met me would comment that I was a star waiting to happen. My parents were proud of me. Their only concern was that I was perhaps a little too fearless for my own good. If this sounds familiar it is probably because most girls are confident and enthusiastic as children, and like myself, most girls notice a huge decrease in their self-esteem once they start middle school.

In Reviving Ophelia so many girls had been abused or were using drugs or were sexually active, and I found it strange to find myself relating so well to their feelings while I seemed so different from them. I have come to realize that this is not a problem only within myself, but a universal problem that affects all teenage girls. Reading this book has opened my eyes in so many ways. It has inspired me to hold on tight to my true self, to fight for my spirit, which has been buried underneath all of my self-doubt and the demands of others around me. I am so grateful that this was written, and I truly believe that it can help girls to stay strong and true to themselves.

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